If you look to the right of this post, you'll see what looks like a book cover...and it is!
After much procrastination and a lot of hard work, I have finally compiled the Reluctant RoVer's (mis)adventures into an e-book form. (Print book to be available soon.)
Don't Back into the Palm Tree! Real Life Lessons for New and Wannabe RVers is available in e-book (Kindle) format on Amazon.com. (You don't have to have a Kindle to read the book. You can get a Kindle app for your cell phone or any type of tablet--Android, PC, or Mac/iPad.)
We've learned a lot during the 5+ years we have been RVing. My main purpose in writing this book was to share our experiences and mistakes so that others--new and wannabe RVers--don't have to make the same mistakes. I am sure we will continue to learn as we travel throughout the country, and I will continue to blog. I hope, though that my blogs will finally be able to focus on more adventures instead of the (mis)adventures of the motorhome failing to run properly.
One of the links below the book-cover image will give you a sample of the book. The other will take you to the Amazon page, where you can purchase the book. I would appreciate your honest review of the book.
I'll keep you posted when the print edition is ready. It would make a fine gift to any of your friends you might be thinking about hitting the RV road.
Until later,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
Wednesday, May 18, 2016
Saturday, May 7, 2016
Putting Junior Back Together
We are finally getting ready to travel!
We had planned to take a two- or three-week trip to the west coast of Florida in January, but our plans were sidelined by health issues. Jim developed an outer-ear infection, which became very severe--into a form of osteomyelitis (bacterial bone infection) of an ear bone. It was so bad that the ENT immediately sent him to an infectious disease MD, who put him on 24/7 IV injection drugs. After almost six weeks of antibiotics, the infection was cured. He is now back to normal.
At the time when the infection took hold, Jim had discovered (and fixed) a fuel-line problem in Junior. Replacing the leaking coupling was challenging because of the confining space in the engine compartment, but he got it done. However (isn't there always a "however"?), when he was fixing the fuel line, he found that the exhaust pipe attached to the manifold had rusted out. We could not travel with that known issue. He managed to get the exhaust pipe and its fittings removed and our RV-park neighbor (a welder) welded the new flange for him. But before he could put everything back together, the ear infection sidelined him.
Yesterday, he put the exhaust system back together. Yea!
We learned an important lesson from this fuel leak/exhaust-system problem: When buying an RV (new or used) examine how to get into the engine compartment.
Routine maintenance, such as checking and changing oil and transmission fluids and checking belts, is done through the engine door on the backside of a diesel-pusher RV. However, to work on the engine requires opening a trap door to the engine compartment, usually found under the bed.
We knew where the trap door was in Junior, our 2005 Country Coach. What we did not know (until Jim had to actually work on the engine) was that to open that trap door, he had to remove the mirrored sliding closet doors, unscrew and remove the closet-door track, and prop up the bed before he could unscrew and pry up the trap door. It is apparent that the interior designers did not collaborate with the chassis designers when this model was built.
If we ever buy another RV (I hope not), ease of access to the engine compartment would be on our checklist.
With the RV now put back together, where will we go? Our first trip will probably be to Florida's panhandle, where we would like to fish in the gulf, paddle our kayaks down some creeks, and do some fishing.
Soon!
Until later,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
We had planned to take a two- or three-week trip to the west coast of Florida in January, but our plans were sidelined by health issues. Jim developed an outer-ear infection, which became very severe--into a form of osteomyelitis (bacterial bone infection) of an ear bone. It was so bad that the ENT immediately sent him to an infectious disease MD, who put him on 24/7 IV injection drugs. After almost six weeks of antibiotics, the infection was cured. He is now back to normal.
At the time when the infection took hold, Jim had discovered (and fixed) a fuel-line problem in Junior. Replacing the leaking coupling was challenging because of the confining space in the engine compartment, but he got it done. However (isn't there always a "however"?), when he was fixing the fuel line, he found that the exhaust pipe attached to the manifold had rusted out. We could not travel with that known issue. He managed to get the exhaust pipe and its fittings removed and our RV-park neighbor (a welder) welded the new flange for him. But before he could put everything back together, the ear infection sidelined him.
Yesterday, he put the exhaust system back together. Yea!
We learned an important lesson from this fuel leak/exhaust-system problem: When buying an RV (new or used) examine how to get into the engine compartment.
Routine maintenance, such as checking and changing oil and transmission fluids and checking belts, is done through the engine door on the backside of a diesel-pusher RV. However, to work on the engine requires opening a trap door to the engine compartment, usually found under the bed.
We knew where the trap door was in Junior, our 2005 Country Coach. What we did not know (until Jim had to actually work on the engine) was that to open that trap door, he had to remove the mirrored sliding closet doors, unscrew and remove the closet-door track, and prop up the bed before he could unscrew and pry up the trap door. It is apparent that the interior designers did not collaborate with the chassis designers when this model was built.
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| The engine compartment is a tight fit. Jim had to crawl out onto the engine to finish putting the exhaust system together. |
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| Crawling out of the engine compartment was in itself a challenge! Visible on the left is the propped-up bed. |
If we ever buy another RV (I hope not), ease of access to the engine compartment would be on our checklist.
With the RV now put back together, where will we go? Our first trip will probably be to Florida's panhandle, where we would like to fish in the gulf, paddle our kayaks down some creeks, and do some fishing.
Soon!
Until later,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
Sunday, November 8, 2015
An excellent vacation, despite the rain
November 8, 2015--This has been an excellent vacation,
despite the weather (rain, rain, and more rain).
When we received the invitation to attend Webster's 90th
birthday party, we decided to make a vacation out of the event. Originally, we
intended to arrive at Webster's on Friday and leave on Monday morning. From
there, we weren't sure where we would go...perhaps to the barrier islands,
perhaps to the mountains.
We tried to find camping on the barrier islands (outer
banks). All of the state parks are closed for the winter. We found some private
RV parks, but their cost was prohibitive. So we canned the idea of camping on
the islands.
It was then that Jim remarked that Colerain (the town of 200 in
which Webster resides) is close to the Virginia border as well as the outer
banks. Also, he said, that whole area was "full of history."
I'm sure I knew it at one time, but I had forgotten that
North Carolina was one of the original 13 colonies. The coastal areas of North
Carolina are rich in history, dating long before the Revolutionary War.
We decided to make Webster's backyard our home base and
explore the coastal area and fish through day trips.
Our first stop was Edenton, a small community of less than
8,000. Sitting on the Albemarle Sound, its quaint colonial downtown stands
sentry over the waterfront, complete with a number of cannons from the
Revolutionary War era.
Outside of the town is the Edenton National Fish Hatchery,
where shad, bass, sturgeon and other species are hatched, raised, and released
in area streams and lakes. The biologists had just finished loading some fish
into tanks to be transported to other locations, but one of the biologists took
time to show us how the fish are hatched and raised. He also showed us some
baby sturgeon. I did not realize how prehistoric they look! No scales!
We took a short hike on the 25-acre property. As we were
returning to the car, the biologist started to feed the baby fish in the
several ponds. Even before the food pellets hit the water, the surface teemed
with thousands of fish, waiting for their meal. He said they hear the tractor
and the food machine approach and wait to be fed.
From the hatchery, we drove into Edenton and found the
visitors' center, which is in the Penelope Barker house, located on the
waterfront. The visitors' center also serves as a small, free museum that shows
off a number of items, mostly maritime-related.
A half block away from the visitors' center was the Roanoke
River Lighthouse, which opened on the Roanoke River, about eight miles away
from its current location, in 1866.
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| Roanoke River Lighthouse, Edenton, N.C. |
This lighthouse is believed to be the last remaining square
screw-pile lighthouse, which helped guide mariners along the North Carolina
shore. The lighthouse was decommissioned by the Coast Guard in 1941. Finally in
1955 a private citizen purchased the lighthouse and had it moved to Edenton, to
serve as a private residence. In 2007 the structure was moved to a location on
the Edenton Waterfront in Colonial Park. In 2012, it was again moved to its
current (permanent) location over the bay, in Edenton Bay. The interior
restoration was completed in 2014.
We also drove around Edenton and looked at the historic buildings.
During the summer, the town has trolley tours available for tourists.
The next day, we drove up to the coast to see Kitty Hawk and
to fish. The biologist we spoke with at the hatchery had told us fishing was really
good right now.
The Wright brothers had their historic first flights at Kill
Devil Hills, a few miles south of the town of Kitty Hawk. A small museum houses
reproductions of their first manned airplane, as well as the glider they used
to learn about flying like the birds. A monument stands atop Kill Devil Hill.
Likewise, monuments identify where the first flight took and where it landed
(quite a short distance!), as well as the spots where the next three flights
landed. Each flight grew progressively longer.
The first flight on December 17, 1903, lasted just a few
seconds and covered 120 feet. How awesome is it that we are able to go beyond
the moon in manned aircraft, just 112 years after that first humble flight.
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| Monument commemorating the site of the first flight of the Wright Brothers. |
History and museums are interesting, but we wanted fun, too.
We headed to the beach, where we lugged our fishing tackle to the shore,
determined we would pull in all types of fish.
It was not to be. But we really had fun. Jim changed into
shorts and waded into the surf. I tried to stay dry on the beach. The water was
chilly; the sun did not come out; the mist threatened to turn into showers. But
we had a great time. We also tried our hand fishing off a bridge. People were
pulling them in...until we arrived. Then the wind changed, and the fish stopped
biting.
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| Jim got soaked but had a ball surf-casting. He caught one little fish, which he threw back. |
Oh, well.
We had a great time.
We finally left Webster's on Friday morning and drove down
to south of Wilmington, where we hoped to do go to a kite festival and do some
fishing. After calculating the time it would take to get to the kite festival,
we decided to stay home. Jim wanted to be back in time to watch the FSU game; I
wanted to watch IU. Alas, both teams lost heart-breakers.
After the game, we drove into Wilmington. Jim had perused a
visitor's guide, which said the city of 89,000 had a river walk. We found the
river walk (under construction and not appealing at night). We also discovered
that Wilmington has a very vibrant after-dark downtown area on Front Street
(near the river walk). Dozens of restaurants attract hundreds of patrons. We
ate at a Vietnamese restaurant. We shared a Vietnamese pancake as well as a
fried flounder covered with a fruity and vegetable salsa and a tasty sauce (all
gluten-free). We've never had such good Vietnamese food.
Today, our plans to fish have been squelched by the weather.
The temperature dropped to a high of only 58 today, with rain. I doubt we will
wet a hook.
Such is life.
So what that we can't fish here? We can always fish at home.
After all, Jacksonville is laced with creeks and rivers and bordered by the
Atlantic Ocean, so we can take a "vacation" any time we want.
This vacation, however, has been great.
Until later,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
Tuesday, November 3, 2015
No opportunities in disguise
November 3, 2015--Some people say that problems are
opportunities in disguise. I say (at least in regard to Junior, our motorhome),
they are frustrations, plain and simple.
On this trip we have experienced a couple new
"challenges"-- the gas furnace hot and the hot water heater.
First, the furnace. The RV has two heating systems: An
electric heat strip and a set of two gas furnaces. The furnaces are actually
new (installed at no cost by the manufacturer as a beta test three years ago).
We've only used them a few times, since we rarely cold-weather camp.
I think the last time we used them was when we camped in
Raleigh three years ago. At that time, the temperature fell below freezing. We had
attempted to use the heat strips (which work off the AC condensers), but it was
too cold for them. (I believe we actually damaged the rear AC condenser at that
time.) After that trip, the rear furnace blower would come on by itself
occasionally; Jim had to remove the fuse.
The manufacturer of the beta furnaces sent a tech out to identify
and fix the intermittent blower problem, but of course, since it was an
intermittent problem, he couldn't find the cause. (We're lucky like that.) The
furnaces, however, worked fine, last time we used them.
Now? They won't come on. At
all.
We can't run the heat strip because it takes too much
amperage (we only have 20 amp power from our complimentary plug in at Webster's).
This brings us to the second part of the heating problem--our space heater.
We bought a space heater when we purchased our first RV. Although
it is five years old, it has only been used a few times. On this trip, the
evenings have been chilly and damp, so we needed a source of heat. Since the
furnaces don't work and we can't use the electric heat strips, we plugged in
the space heater. The first night we had no problem; we were toasty warm
running the space heater. The next night was another story. Jim plugged the
heater in, and after a few minutes, he saw it arc, then shut off. So long,
space heater.
Yesterday, we found a Walmart and purchased a new ceramic
space heater.
Now for our second "opportunity"--out hot water
heater. It was working fine on both electric and gas power sources, then
suddenly it stopped working. No hot water, using either gas or electric heating
sources.
Two years ago we had a problem with the hot water heater;
the thermostat had gone bad. (That happens, no big deal.) This time, however,
we don't think it is the thermostat. We think it is the circuit board, because
the heater won't work at all, on electric or gas power.
These are annoying problems, but I am tired of them. Enough,
already!
Until later,
Your frustrated Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
Monday, November 2, 2015
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth
November 2, 2015--The adage goes, "Don't look a gift horse in the mouth." It means that when someone is kind enough to give a gift, the recipient should be grateful.
We are semi-dry-camping at Webster's, with the RV parked in
the back yard near an out-building that has electricity. When we pulled in,
Becky (Webster's daughter) said we could plug into a 20 amp circuit if we
wanted to. We declined, saying we didn't need to; we had a generator. If we plugged into the electrical circuit, we would not be able to use all of our appliance or electric heat, because we need at least a 30 amp (and preferably a 50 amp) circuit.
So, we opted to run our generator so that we could have all the conveniences of home, on our own terms. However...
After only two days of running the generator (we had driven about 200 miles on the tank of diesel), the generator quit. The
generator quits when fuel gets down to a quarter tank. It's a safeguard so that
you can still drive to get fuel.
Once the generator quit, the gift of 20 amp electricity looked pretty darn good. We decided to take up the offer. If we care careful, we can watch TV, make coffee, and run the space
heater all at the same time, but we can't turn on the microwave. For that we can only watch TV and
use the microwave. Figuring out which appliance we can use at one time is like doing a mathematical puzzle: Add up the amps and make sure they don't go over 20.
We had no hesitation in accepting Webster's offer to use his shower. Our water tank was only partially filled when we got here, and the grey water tank was also partially filled. Instead of taking "navy showers" we often use public showers when we dry-camp, so accepting Webster's hospitality was right in keeping with our boondocking. His water pressure is weak, and the water is very hard, but hey! We've learned not to look at gift horse in the mouth.
Until later,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
Sunday, November 1, 2015
November 1, 2015--No tricks; all treats yesterday at
Webster's 90ths birthday party.
Webster (Jim's uncle--his mother's brother and the only
surviving sibling of nine) has lived in this rural northeastern North Carolina
community his entire life, except for when he was in the military.
For most of
those 90 years, he has lived in the same house!
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| Webster and Jim after his birthday party |
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| The BIG birthday party |
When someone resides and is active in a community that long
(he was a successful farmer and an active supporter of education in the area),
he becomes well known.
Webster is a genuinely nice man. He still drives (like a bat
out of hell); fortunately his eyesight and reflexes still seem good); he still
keeps a very large garden. And from that garden he keeps family and friends in
vegetables all summer and fall. We will be going home with a huge bagful of
green beans, many more sweet potatoes than I'll eat in six months. a bagful of
raw peanuts (which are grown in the area), and some pecans from an ancient tree
in his front yard.
Webster's birthday party was not a small affair. His five kids (and he) invited more than 175
people. Altogether more than 200 showed up for a luncheon party of fried
chicken (really looked good), Carolina barbeque, barbequed potatoes, lima
beans, corn, corn bread, and a whole lot of gluten-filled desserts in addition
to the birthday cake. (Jim and I ogled the fried chicken and desserts and
wished that the gluten could be taken out of it just this once.)
Although all five of Webster's children threw the party for
him, his daughter Becky was the primary organizer. I asked her whose idea the
party was. "Dad's!" she said. She said about a month or so before the
party, he approached her:
"I guess I have a birthday coming up."
"Yes, you do, Dad. It's a big one."
"Guess it is kinda important...so I'd like to have a
party."
Although he said he wanted to pay for it himself, she and
her brothers refused the offer. A father only turns 90 once.
I'm glad we were here to help him celebrate. It was a great
time.
Until later,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
Friday, October 30, 2015
Looking forward to treats, not tricks
October 30, 2015--The last time we went on the road--to the Midwest for four weeks during the summer--we had plenty of tricks waiting for us when we returned.
The first week we were gone, a woman from the neighborhood lost control of her car and turned it over in our adjacent neighbor's yard. The accident took out an electrical transformer and created a significant power surge. So significant that it blew every controller in our house. We lost our refrigerator, the swim-spa controllers, our heated mattress pad, some GFIs, and the sprinkler system.
The refrigerator was the worst: All the food (about $350 worth) was putrified, and the refrigerator had to be replaced. Worst of all were the flies. Where did they come from? I don't even want to think about it.
The good news is we had an early Halloween treat: The auto insurance finally settled the claim--in full. My checkbook is grateful.
So, we hope not to have any more tricks. We are experiencing some treats, however. Yesterday we left home for a trip up to North Carolina. Jim's uncle Webster is celebrating his 90th birthday. It will be a small party...his daughter says she has confirmations from 196 people! Webster is quite popular in this small farming community.
We took our time driving up. We actually stopped in Brunswick, Ga., and had an oil and lube job done on Junior. We then drove another few hours and stayed the night at a Walmart in Florence, S.C. We woke up to chilly weather. We definitely don't need the AC, but we do need some warm blankets.
We are now dry-camping in Webster's backyard. We will be here for a couple of days. We would like to go to North Carolina's barrier islands and fish for a few days, but we are having trouble finding economical RV camping. If we don't go to the islands, then we may go to the mountains. Who knows? It is rather nice not having a schedule and just being able to relax.
I'll let you know where we end up.
Oh...one more thing: I am pleased with my new AT&T hotspot. Until recently, this area of North Carolina was hostage to one small cellular company. None of the big networks worked. I was pleased to find that AT&T now has service here...at least most of the time. And my hotspot works great.
Until next time,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
The first week we were gone, a woman from the neighborhood lost control of her car and turned it over in our adjacent neighbor's yard. The accident took out an electrical transformer and created a significant power surge. So significant that it blew every controller in our house. We lost our refrigerator, the swim-spa controllers, our heated mattress pad, some GFIs, and the sprinkler system.
The refrigerator was the worst: All the food (about $350 worth) was putrified, and the refrigerator had to be replaced. Worst of all were the flies. Where did they come from? I don't even want to think about it.
The good news is we had an early Halloween treat: The auto insurance finally settled the claim--in full. My checkbook is grateful.
So, we hope not to have any more tricks. We are experiencing some treats, however. Yesterday we left home for a trip up to North Carolina. Jim's uncle Webster is celebrating his 90th birthday. It will be a small party...his daughter says she has confirmations from 196 people! Webster is quite popular in this small farming community.
We took our time driving up. We actually stopped in Brunswick, Ga., and had an oil and lube job done on Junior. We then drove another few hours and stayed the night at a Walmart in Florence, S.C. We woke up to chilly weather. We definitely don't need the AC, but we do need some warm blankets.
We are now dry-camping in Webster's backyard. We will be here for a couple of days. We would like to go to North Carolina's barrier islands and fish for a few days, but we are having trouble finding economical RV camping. If we don't go to the islands, then we may go to the mountains. Who knows? It is rather nice not having a schedule and just being able to relax.
I'll let you know where we end up.
Oh...one more thing: I am pleased with my new AT&T hotspot. Until recently, this area of North Carolina was hostage to one small cellular company. None of the big networks worked. I was pleased to find that AT&T now has service here...at least most of the time. And my hotspot works great.
Until next time,
Your Reluctant RoVer,
Linda
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